The Dos and Don’ts Of Kids Mindfulness

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Dos and donts of kids mindfulness
How to REALLY teach kids mindfulness

I started practicing mindfulness when I was a kid. After seeing how valuable it has been for me, it motivated me and gave me the inspiration to become a kids mindfulness coach at the age of 16. Kids mindfulness has been a growing trend over the past few years but I’ve seen a ton of misconceptions in that time. In this article, I wanted to share my top do’s and don’ts of teaching kids mindfulness so, you, too can teach your kids how to practice mindfulness.

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When I was 11, my family and I decided to ditch the American hustle and move into an RV to travel the world.

I spent all of my teen and tween years hiking, rock climbing, jumping into alpine lakes, experiencing different cultures, and I loved it.

But it also made me a black sheep.

When we changed lifestyles, I had a few close friends with whom I would hang out. But the more I was traveling and experiencing new ways of living, the more ostracized I felt.

My peers didn’t know how to accept someone so different from them. Being a teenager who wasn’t into high school gossip and prom is confusing to people

Instead of just ending our friendship, I allowed it to become toxic. We would hang out and I accepted that I would be treated differently (not in a good way). I began to believe I wasn’t good enough; that I didn’t deserve to be heard, and that being myself was wrong.

I lost my voice. I forgot how to express myself.

Being unable to express ourselves, especially as children, is almost unbearable. And for years, even after I stopped being friends with my friends, I still felt insecure and unable to express myself.

But I learned a skill that changed that and retaught me to be confident, expressive, and authentic: mindfulness.

Practicing mindfulness as a kid impacted my life so much that it inspired me to start my career as a children’s mindfulness coach at the age of 16.

Think about this: when did you learn about mindfulness? Imagine if you had learned the things you now know about yourself when you were 15 years old, 10 years old, or even eight years old. This realization made me decide to take the leap into entrepreneurship and share what I’ve learned with other children, so they, too, can become confident, creative, expressive, and reflective.

Teaching children mindfulness has been a growing trend over the past few years, but I’ve seen so many misconceptions around it at that time.

So, I decided to write this blog and share my top dos and don’ts for teaching children mindfulness. Enjoy!

Dos And Donts Of Kids Mindfulness Yoga Meditation Dance Parties
A dance party is the perfect mindfulness practice to do with your kids!

Kids Mindfulness Tip No.1

Don’t limit your kid’s mindfulness practice strictly to yoga and meditation. 
Do have dance parties. 

Practicing mindfulness is practicing awareness of everything, right? So why can’t children’s mindfulness practice include painting, hiking, singing, baking, play, fighting, or tumbling? The sky is the limit. Kids mindfulness isn’t limited to yoga or meditation; there are millions of ways to teach children mindfulness. My favorite way to get them interested in practicing mindfulness is through dance parties. Get some of their favorite music on—maybe even some strobe lights, and dance!

Depending on how naturally expressive your child is, they might want to do a solo dance party or invite the whole family. Either way, dance parties are a great mindfulness practice because they help your children express themselves, be vulnerable, and become more aware of their bodies.

After the dance party, ask them the following questions, or have them write their answers in a journal:

  • How did you like your dance party?
  • What was your favorite song to dance to and why?
  • Did you feel expressive?
  • Did it feel uncomfortable to express yourself like that
Dos And Donts of Kids Mindfulness Meditation Tips
Your kids will be so mindful if you can get them to meditate so listen close!

Kids Mindfulness Tip No.2

Don’t make meditation boring.
Do use hot chocolate, tea, prompts, music, and crystals in your kid’s meditation practice.

Even adults struggle with getting themselves to sit down and meditate for 10 minutes. So, how can we expect children to do that? But don’t be discouraged because meditation is one of the most powerful things we can get children (or anyone) to do.

The only rules of meditation are not to move or talk while sitting. But you don’t have to sit for a certain amount of time, sit in a certain way, or even be in complete silence. When you incorporate some fun tools into your teaching practice, children will fall in love with meditating.

Make them a cup of hot cocoa or tea to drink while meditating, give them some prompts that encourage mindful awareness, get a good ambient playlist that intrigues them, or crystals that are helpful.

*Crystals may be a choking hazard for younger children.

Related Blog: 10 Tips For Getting Your Child To Meditate (coming soon)

Dos and Donts Of Kids Mindfulness Creativity
Creativity is the first step in raising mindful kids

Kids Mindfulness Tip No.3

Don’t force kids to sit and meditate, or stretch from the get-go.
Do find your child’s creative outlet first.

While meditation and yoga are great mindfulness practices, children don’t necessarily need to be mindful and we can even avoid these entirely, to begin with. Instead, help them find their creative outlet.

Creativity naturally encourages mindfulness and is approachable for children. Help them find a way to be creative every day. Creativity can be many things and isn’t strictly painting or singing. It could be climbing, biking, dancing, writing, or cooking—anything that allows them to have fun in the creating process and to express themselves.

Related Blog: Creative Mindfulness Activities For Kids (coming soon)

Dos and Donts Of Practicing Mindfulness With Kids
Practice what you preach if you want your kids to be mindful!

Kids Mindfulness Tip No.4

Don’t encourage your kids to be mindful while you aren’t. 
Do practice mindfulness yourself.

Practice what you preach. If you would love to see your children become mindful, work every day on being mindful yourself.

Find a practice that works for you and apply it consistently. Another tip to note is sharing what you’ve learned in your practice as well. Treating children as equals will help you open a more mindful dialogue and create a better relationship with them.

Related Blog: Fun Ways To Become A Mindful Adult (coming soon)

Dos and Donts Of Kids Mindfulness Breathing Questions
Reminding kids to come back to their breath is valuable! But not always the best answer…

Kids Mindfulness Tip No.5

Don’t just tell them to breathe. 
Do ask them engaging questions that help them practice awareness.

While reminding your children to breathe or pause for a second can be helpful at times, asking engaging questions will improve their self-awareness.

If your child is dealing with hard emotions or is even getting too excited, help them to be mindful by asking them questions that encourage them to understand themselves more, like:

  • Why do you feel this way?
  • Could this emotion be helpful to you?
  • What caused you to feel this way?

Be sure to treat them as equals in these moments to some degree, and don’t go into full “parenting mode,” as it might cause your children to shut down or try to control things instead of learning.

Dos and Donts of Kids Mindfulness Self Awareness
Give your kids options when it comes to mindfulness!

Kids Mindfulness Tip No.6

Don’t focus on one topic or tool in kids mindfulness. 
Do introduce many different subjects and tools in the realm of self-awareness.

The best way to get your children to hate mindfulness is to stick to one practice and not give them diversity. While I believe you should have one consistent practice, limiting them to only one will make them feel like mindfulness is an obligation they must do rather than a growing experience that can be fun.

I recommend giving them a taste of all mindfulness practices to see which one they love. Show them journaling, meditation, yoga, dance parties, and mindful painting.

Dos-and Donts of Kids Mindful Emotions
Embrace those negative emotions with your kids!

Kids Mindfulness Tip No.7

Don’t ignore negative emotions or topics with kids. 
Do embrace and help your kids work through negativity and discomfort.

The point of mindfulness is to learn to embrace all aspects of life. In modern-day mindfulness practices, there’s an unhealthy stigma that we should focus on the positive. While focusing on the positive is good to some extent, we need to talk about negative emotions and uncomfortable topics when they come up with children. These feelings are important to pay attention to because they hold our biggest discoveries, and will help children the most with being happy. When children can learn to embrace discomfort and negativity, they will learn how to deal with their emotions with more ease, grace, and flow.

Dos and Donts of Kids Mindfulness Consistent Practice
Consistency is KEY!

Kids Mindfulness Tip No.8

Don’t practice mindfulness every once in a while with your kids. 
Do one consistent practice.

Mindfulness is like exercise; it needs to be done consistently for its effects to work. Find what mindfulness practice your children seem to enjoy the most and make it consistent, whether it’s journaling, meditation, or yoga. Ideally, you want to aim for a daily practice, but when first starting to teach your children mindfulness, make it a consistent weekly practice that works best for both of you.

Once you apply these tips to your children’s mindfulness practice, it is going to make mindfulness easy and fun for them to learn.

Everyone needs mindfulness. It isn’t exclusive to those who have jobs or are of a certain age. If anything, teaching children how to be mindful is the most important skill in the world. When we teach children how to be mindful, we are teaching them to be confident in who they are, and not to allow others to dictate their self-expression.

It is a skill that will set their entire future up for success.

I hope that this blog helps you cultivate your child’s mindfulness practice!

✨ Keep It Mindful✨
– Isabelle 

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